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If you want to build a connected, safe, secure relationship that you can really depend on, I have an idea for you. 🌟

Are you filled with a deep fear that your partner doesn’t really love you and might leave? Or perhaps whatever you do in your relationship, it isn’t enough?

Or, you feel anxious, confused, overwhelmed or disconnected in your relationship.

Or maybe you’re not in a relationship because you keep meeting folks unavailable for the type of commitment you want?

If you experience any of these, I want to tell you right now…

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

This is just part of my unique story, but it outlines some of what stood between me and a happy relationship, my Attachment Style.

Healing my own Insecure Attachment Styles took me on an educational and experiential journey that has spanned the last 22 years and supported me to become a master level relationship coach, certified Dynamic Attachment Re-Patterning Experience specialist and teacher (DARe), and a seasoned Compassionate Inquiry (CI), Somatic Experiencing (SE), MBSR, and Attachment Healing for Couples practitioner.

I have been blessed to learn directly from some of the best in the fields of trauma healing and attachment recovery including Dr. Diane Poole Heller, Dr. Gabor Mate, Dr. Stan Tatkin, Sylvia Israel, LMFT, Dr. Terry Levy and Terry Real.

All this training and education got me far towards healing my own attachment system! But what took me over the edge is that I was finally able to choose a partner with whom I could build a connected, loving, safe and SECURE relationship. We’ve been doing the work together for years and it’s where I apply all the skills I’ve learned.

And I’m committed to helping others do the same. 🤗

Now back to the idea!

For several months, I’ve been getting more and more private messages from people sharing they feel lonely, confused and disconnected in their relationships. 

They ask me questions like,

What do I do when my partner needs space? It’s so painful.

My wife is always angry at me. She says she wants connection and even when I tell her I love her, she doesn’t believe me.

Why do I attract the wrong partners?

This all got me thinking. Would it be possible to support people in an ongoing and affordable way towards their goal of building a secure functioning relationship?

I started to imagine a place where folks could…

Heal their attachment system, alongside a supportive community, so they can feel connected and safe with their partner (or potential partner).

Build the toolbox of skills needed for a securely attached relationship, one filled with passion, growth and trust.

Have a place to share relationship challenges without shame, while seeing yourself reflected in other’s experiences.

Like I said, it’s still a bit early but you see the potential right?

I can’t stop thinking about where a community dedicated to nurturing secure relationships could lead us in 1 year, 3 years or 5 years from now. THAT’S what gets me excited.

And that’s why I’d love to extend an early invitation to you!

Why Become a Member?

This community is right for you if:

You’re ready to build safe, loving and joyful relationships with people you can trust and feel supported by.

You want to break free of unhealthy relationship dynamics and are willing to do some work to get there.

You have done some self-work and are looking for a deeper level of healing and growth.

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