You want to feel close, connected and safe with your partner, but often you feel lonely, confused or walking on eggshells.
That’s exactly what the Awakening Relationships Community was built to change.
The Awakening Relationships Community (ARC) is a live, monthly membership for partnered individuals who want to build secure, connected, and trustworthy relationships that last.
It’s not therapy.
It’s not another course you’ll start and forget.
It’s a guided community where you learn the how-to, day-to-day of being in a secure relationship.
With weekly coaching, monthly expert workshops, and a supportive community, ARC gives you the structure and tools to break old patterns, learn to communicate clearly, repair faster, and create the kind of closeness you’ve been craving.
Enrollment opens soon. Join the waitlist now.
Live coaching with Relationship Experts to get practical tools and customized support
Up-To-Date Trainings and workshops so you know what to do, when
The Entire Secure Relationship Course to take at your own pace to help you make changes
A supportive community that gets what you’re going through, because they are too
“I love my partner — but sometimes I feel so alone.”
It feels like you’re in the same relationship but living on different planets. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, tried the scripts, maybe even gone to therapy…but connection still slips through your fingers.
You want to feel close again. Heard. Safe. Like your partner really gets you.
And yet…
- The fights keep repeating — or worse, everything goes quiet.
- You end up over-explaining, over-functioning, or overthinking.
- You try to let it go, but resentment builds until you explode.
- You love your partner, but it’s starting to feel harder than it should.
If this sounds familiar — you’re not broken, and your relationship isn’t doomed. It’s a pattern, not a personal failure. And patterns can be changed.
That’s where ARC comes in.
💬 What You’ll Find Inside ARC
🩵 Everything you need to stop repeating the same negative relational patterns — and start feeling safe, seen, and connected, to yourself, and your partner.
When you join the community, you will have immediate access to…
🩵 The Secure Relationship Journey: This is the 5-step framework you’ll move through inside ARC —the exact process I have used to help hundreds of clients go from anxious or avoidant patterns to secure, grounded love (with themselves and their partners).
💬 Live Coaching Calls Twice a month, join me for group coaching and personalized guidance. These are safe, grounded spaces to explore your patterns and get practical guidance on how to shift them.
🌀 Monthly Workshops Deep dives into high-impact topics (with special guests) like healthy boundaries, loving communication, nervous system repair, and healing emotional wounds. so you stop repeating the same negative cycles and know exactly what to do at the right moment to feel grounded in yourself, and closer to your partner.
👏 Supportive Community A safe, private space where you’ll connect with others who understand. Instead of feeling alone in your struggles, you’ll be encouraged by people on the same path.
🎥 Private Resource Library Bite-sized replays, scripts, guided practices, and reflection prompts you can go through to at your own pace—to meet you where you’re at and help you integrate your learning, not overwhelm you.
✍️ Ask-Anything Form Ask your toughest questions anonymously — and get thoughtful, personalized answers during calls or in the private hub.
When you start applying these tools inside ARC, things begin to shift in subtle but powerful ways.
You catch yourself pausing before reacting. You repair faster after a disagreement.
You stop walking on emotional eggshells and start speaking from your heart—with calm confidence instead of fear.
And then one day, you notice it:
The softness returning between you and your partner. The warmth. The safety. The sense that maybe love doesn’t have to feel so hard.
That’s what our members experience—real, lasting change that begins within.
This community is right for you if:
✅ You want to learn how to communicate clearly—without defaulting into shutdown, blame, or defensiveness.
You’re craving clean, connected conversations that don’t leave you feeling hopeless or confused.
✅ You’re tired of feeling emotionally drained—and you’re longing to feel close again.
You want to feel like partners, not just problem-solvers.
✅ You’re ready to take responsibility—and need real support to fully change the patterns.
You’re not afraid of the work—you just want someone to guide you through it.
What Current ARC Members are Saying
For the first time in my life, I feel truly seen, heard, and safe. The tools and support from ARC have transformed how I connect with others.
The workshops on communication and boundaries have changed so much for me. I absolutely love Rose, and the guests she brings in are phenomenal. Everyone is so nice and welcoming and I feel like I’m learning tools I should have had years ago.
Since joining ARC, I’ve stopped sabotaging my relationships. The monthly coaching calls helped me understand my triggers and how my behaviors were getting me the opposite of what I really wanted, a safe, loving partner. With the support I have now, I finally feel like I can make consistent changes.
I used to feel like I was walking on eggshells in every relationship. ARC gave me tools to set boundaries and manage my feelings of overwhelm. For the first time, I feel safe and in control of my connections.
Before joining ARC, I always felt scared my partner would stop loving me and leave. I didn’t know how to communicate my feelings to him without things blowing up. Now, I can express myself clearly and calmly, and our relationship feels stronger than ever.
From Stuck in Painful Patterns to Secure Relationships (My Story)
For years, my partnerships looked one of two ways:
Either I was anxious and overthinking everything about them and my relationship...
...or I felt suffocated and confused by my partner and would often shut down and withdraw.
I was stuck in an exhausting cycle of anxiety, clinginess, confusion, and avoidance—and I couldn’t understand why.
Then I discovered attachment theory.
I learned my Attachment Style was a big part of why I suffered in relationships. It stopped me from communicating effectively, feeling safe, and setting appropriate boundaries.
Over the last 20+ years, I’ve studied and trained with the leading experts in trauma healing and attachment system repair — including Dr. Diane Poole Heller, Dr. Gabor Maté, Dr. Stan Tatkin, and Terry Real.
Through that work, I developed a clear, step-by-step process that helps people move from anxious or avoidant patterns into secure, steady love.
That process became the Secure Relationship Journey and the ARC became the space I wish I’d had when I was learning how to build a connected relationship.
My goal is to offer you the guidance and tools you need to transform your relationship, for a fraction of the cost of what I’ve spent (and in a lot less time!).
ARC isn’t a course. It’s not just more information.
It’s an expertly guided community that helps bring you into your own state of secure attachment, so you can feel close to your partner again, and at peace in your life.
ARC is an ongoing safe space for healing, growth, and reconnection—through live coaching calls, workshops, tools, community support, and a plan that works created by a real human relationship expert who gets what you’re going through (because I’ve been there).
I can’t wait to work with you. 🤗
WHAT CHANGES WHEN YOU TAKE THE SECURE RELATIONSHIP JOURNEY
🫀 Create emotional safety and connection
This isn’t just about tools and scripts—it’s about creating trust and safety in yourself, and in all your close relationships.
💬 Say what you feel—without it turning into a fight (or unspoken distance)
Learn to address issues in your relationships without shutting down, blowing up, or becoming frozen with guilt or fear.
🛠️ Navigate relationship challenges like a pro
No more sweeping things under the rug or talking at length to your friends (but not your partner). Learn the art of reconnection–even after a fight—and feel more at ease in your relationship, and your life.
🧭 Reinvigorate physical intimacy with your partner
Trust each other physically and emotionally so you can go from “we feel like roommates” to “I feel so lucky to be with my lover AND best friend”.
📿 Feel grounded in yourself
Care for all the different parts of you so you can make decisions from your highest self as do the healing needed to really feel loved, accepted, respected, validated, and safe again.
🌿 Start to relax in love
Let go of the armor. This is where your nervous system finally gets to rest and be at peace—your relationship softens into something sustainable.
Don’t walk this journey alone—here’s how ARC can guide and support you every step of the way:
Expert Guidance
Receive consistent insights from a seasoned relationship expert and attachment specialist. Navigate your relationship journey with clarity and confidence.
Supportive Community
Connect with a network of like-minded individuals committed to secure, fulfilling relationships. Share experiences, offer advice, and receive encouragement every step of the way.
Lifetime Membership Value
Lock in a low monthly membership fee for life by joining today. This special offer gives you full access to our community and resources at the best value.
Still Have Questions?
- How does ARC differ from therapy or coaching?
ARC is a guided membership designed to help you build secure, connected, and emotionally healthy relationships — starting from the inside out. It combines the depth of therapeutic insight with the practicality of coaching and the consistency of community. Unlike a self-paced course you take once and forget, ARC is an ongoing space for growth. - What if I miss a live call?
All calls and workshops are recorded, so you can catch up anytime. You’ll never miss a session—everything is designed to fit your schedule. - What if I’m a parent or really busy?
I hear you, me too! You can move through resources at your own pace. Healing doesn’t need to feel like another job—it can fit within the rhythm of your life. - How long does it take to see results?
Everyone's journey is unique, but many members start seeing improvements in their relationship within the first few months. - What if I’m the only one doing the work in my relationship?
ARC is designed exactly for that. I always say, When one person changes, the relationship changes. Partnered members join solo and experience powerful changes in their relationship dynamics. - My partner would like to join ARC with me—is that ok? Absolutely. While ARC is primarily designed for individual healing within partnership, some members choose to go through the material alongside their partner. In that case, each of you signs up separately. You’ll each have your own access and can attend calls separately or together—it’s completely up to you.
- I'm not in a relationship, will this still help me?
Yes. Everything inside ARC starts with you. The tools you’ll learn — emotional regulation, boundaries, communication, and repair — strengthen every relationship in your life, including the one with yourself. - Is ARC inclusive of all identities and relationship styles?
ARC is an inclusive, trauma-informed community for all genders, sexual orientations, and relationship structures. What matters here isn’t how you love, but how you communicate, honor boundaries, and build safety and connection. - I’m not sure if ARC will really help—is it worth joining?
If you’re open, reflective, and ready to practice what you learn, ARC can absolutely create change. Remember, even one person shifting their own patterns can shift an entire relationship. Ask yourself: What would change if I had new ways to communicate that actually worked under stress? How would it feel to feel seen, heard, and safe again with my partner? If these outcomes matter to you, then yes—it’s worth it.